Friday, November 27, 2009

Eight Weeks

"By eight weeks, tiny hands and feet help the embryo begin to look human. The umbilical cord is thick and strong. Inside it are a vein, which carries nutrients and oxygen from the mother through the placenta to the embryo, and two arteries, which transfer waste from the embryo's blood to the mother's bloodstream."

While all these changes are taking place, our lives are beginning to change dramatically. We are faced with new uncertainties and many fears. We're still battling the hurry up and wait hiring process with the Pentagon, so it's hard telling where we'll be within the next six months.

Nikholi is soo excited that mommy is having a baby. He enjoys telling everyone we meet that "Mommy has a baby in her belly. We don't know what it is though; if it's a boy or a girl." Then when he is asked what he would like to have he always says, "BOTH, a Boy and a Girl!" Since I became pregnant he's been determined that I am having twins. :)

Either way, we'll find out Wednesday! Mommy has an ultrasound schedule for Wednesday to determine our gestation and of course look for multiples.

Over the past couple weeks I have been faced with some difficult challenges. Food is no longer appealing; which is crazy because I LOVE food! I'm nausiated all day long. Thanksgiving was wonderful, but again challenging, all this wonderful food and no taste buds to appriciate it! The only food items I've been able to tolerate lately is a cheese and bologne sandwich and ceasar salads. So when I came home last night, from what everyone expressed was a wonderful thanksgiving dinner, I gobbled up two bologne and cheese sandwhiches with a tall glass of milk.

In my husbands efforts to curb me away from caffiene (one of my worst addictions) he has finally succeed this week. Prior to and even in the beginning month of pregnancy I was consuming approximately 8-42 oz. of caffeine per day. Now, I don't even want carbination! A family favorite are those seasonal Cranberry Sierra Mists, but lately I haven't even been able to look at those.

Many people say every pregnancy is different and now on my third, I can't agree more. My pregnancy with Nikholi was complicated in more aspects than one. I couldn't keep any food down, much less my own syliva. I had pre-term labor at 26 weeks, which was later slowed by a horrible drug called Magnesium Solfate. Nevertheless, I ended up delivering him two day prior to his due date.

My pregnancy with Kambri also brought some concerns, but was a lot smoother than my first. We moved cross-country during my pregnancy with her and towards the end doctors were concerned of a low birth weight. With her I was able to E-A-T! I remember downing a whole box of powdered donut holes by myself. Donuts were my favorite and if Roger dared bring them home they wouldn't last to see more than two hours on top of the fridg. My water broke at home and we delivered our princess two weeks prior to her due date.

Through my experiences I have learned that STRESS plays a large contributing factor to the success of the pregnancy. So trying to have as little stess as possible will be key to a full term delivery. Although there are many uncertainties, Heavenly Father, always seems to take care of us. When we try our best and flucuate our schedules accordingly, everything seems to always work out.

I am soo thankful for: my total boy with his witty comments; my darling princess for her constant comfort (she's always open for a hug); my husband who never ceases to amaze me (accounting for how much we have changed and grown together); my mom for her example in courage for fighting through the storms; my dad for always calling and thinking of me; my brothers and sisters for there awesome examples in faith and strength; and most of all, my grandmother for always having a phone line open when I need someone to talk to, who offers the most excellent advice without biases of either party I'm concerned about. Thank you all for the wonderful impressions you've had on my life and I hope everyone had a WONDERFUL ThanksGiving!

Monday, November 9, 2009

We'Re ExPeCtInG

I know I haven't updated the blog as often as I probably should have; I've become addicted to Facebook! However, I have some exciting news to share and hopefully, this will give me more reasons to write and share experiences on our family blog.

A word from DAD: For those that know or dont know we are having third. A third? (you may ask yourself) well, I'll come out with it; A baby! I'm really excited and looking forward the long sleepless nights and the baby screaming and crying (feed me, change me). Great times! (LOL)
What I like the most about this one coming is I get to name it. Yes thats right I'm naming the baby. (watch out!)Everybody ask what do want a boy or a girl, I say I'll have name for what ever it is. All I want is a heathy baby. The great thing about having a baby is it shows the love that we have for each other; to bring life to the world as we know it.

were expecting Pictures, Images and Photos

A word from MOM: Mixed feelings all around, but most of all I can't believe this is our reality. I feel like I'm still dreaming, SOMEONE PLEASE PINCH ME! Although, this isn't our first, the experience is totally new; which creates a feeling like I've never been down this road before and I'm forgetting what to expect. Over the next 7 1/2 months I will be preparing mentally and physically for our new addition!

These first three month are probably going to be my most anxious time with this pregnancy. Although, I know my physical appearance won't make too many dramatic effects over the next 9 weeks, I'm already having cravings, I feel exhasted, nauseous, completely bloated and faint. However, it's not all bad news, I'm soo excited for this new stage in our life and that my body is preparing itself for the task ahead.

I'm so greatful to my wonderful husband for providing me with support, even though he is currenly in New Mexico, on my emotional roller coaster. He has said a lot of things, I would have never expected him to say that have really calmed my fears and brought me peace.

Nikholi is four and half and determined it's TWINS *laughs at his wonderful imagination* and Kambri is currently 18 months and I'm suspicious of her inclings; she's already started potty training! This makes me a happy mommy!

I'm currently contemplating a Midwife or an OB/GYN. My OB, who is totally awesome and helped me discover that I have endometriosis, carries rumors that he no longer delivers. I won't find out for another couple weeks, but if that is the case I believe I'll be searching for a midwife. If you have any comments on this or can share your own opinion, please do so under the comments for this post; we want to hear from you!

Roger and I found out we are expecting our third little bundle of joy on July 10, 2010. Overwhelmed with excitment I'm hoping to share our journey with you through a series of posts on our blog with a short-list of baby names, a checklist of what we need to buy for the baby, and preparing the nursery so that everything is ready for when he or she arrives!