I wish I had someone who would clean my house for what I make an hour! It definitely wouldn't be monetary gain. I didn't sweep and mop my floors as planned yesterday, although I had all the furniture moved as if I was going to.
My hunnie is such a neat freak that when he comes home if the house isn't clean, he gets upset. Since we've been together he's gone from yelling at me about the unclean house, to expressing hurtful comments like, "You were home all day, why didn't you do anything" (as if taking care of our kids isn't enough), to his latest kick. I think what he does now, pisses me off more than if he were verbally experssing what he was feeling. Now when he comes home and the house isn't clean, I don't get my regular kiss right when he walks in the door, he doesn't even speak to me (unless I ask him a direct question), and starts picking up himself. I guess it's nice that he's willing to come home and start picking up (a darastic change from where we've started), but I'd prefer if he truly understood where I was coming from (What I ACTUALLY accomplished throughout the day) so we would both be more willing to "tag-team it" together.
Today, my littlest one isn't feeling the greatest so we skipped out on our exercises at the YMCA today. He has a runny nose, a butt rash, and a runny diaper that I'm having a hard time keeping up with. I just gave him a bath and he's down for a nap, but I feel soo bad for the little guy.
Despite trying to stay on top of our two puppies and taking care of our sick boy, since I decided to skip out on the Y, I know the hunnie is going to be expecting more of me (it seems like a never ending vicious cycle). Tomorrow is a busy day with Yoga, Doctor's appointments for both younger kids, and my hunnie's graduation from the Police Academy. The more house cleaning I can accomplish today, the less I'll have to worry about tomorrow.
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I feel you sweetie Im the first to admit im not the best house keeper in the world and since my hubby comes from a spotless house that is what he wants and is used too... years ago I would get the "what did you do today" comment but now i get "are you gonna do this you gonna do that' and i dont mind that as much but what hurts me the most is he gets up and starts cleaning things himself and it makes me feel like he has no faith that I will actually get up and do it which makes me feel bad about myself since I do want to have the spotless house he is hoping i will give him... grrr men sometimes we love them to death but at the same time they at times drive us nuts!!!!! hope you get what you want done today prayers are being sent your way!!!!!
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